~ Ka Chinery
The creative trends born of the internet are fascinating. These mini clips gone viral and laugh out loud stilled photos of human expression pairing short phrases, can often be laced with tinges of truth.
As I look forward to new offerings across the gamut of true love sweet nothings, bitter expressions of loss, and the half truths strewn between, a fitting sentiment can surely be found to fit all occasions.
"I was lying to myself when I thought I was lost, I have never been lost -- I just was not ready to be found." ~ Nikki Rowe
With so many ways of communicating our intentions to one another one would think it is easier now than ever to be straight forward. In the relationship arena, however, it would seem that game is still on. Some are on a quest for true love and commitment, while others not in search of serious long term involvement, seek the convenience of human connection.
A colleague disclosed that the journey following the end of their marriage taught them the value of knowing the difference between the desire for a relationship versus missing the idea of being part of a coupling.
"Shortly after separating from my spouse, I found myself missing their presence. I did not miss my role, but after almost 26 years of identifying as half a couple, I had to learn to be alone again. I chose to be single and I was not lonely. I had just forgotten how to appreciate my aloneness."
"Was it really some other person I was so anxious to discover, or was it my own solitude that I could not abide." ~ David Markson
This colleague acknowledged causing a great deal of disappointment and heartache in the life of someone who had sought a solid relationship committed to something more permanent.
"I was in need of clarity to redefine my life. I invited someone in as a filler for what I was learning to live without. They sought long term love while I was seeking comfortable connection and I deeply regret the pain I caused."
Still happily single, my friend now lives in a space of truth and authenticity in relationship to self and the individual currently alongside them on their redefined joy filled journey.
"I was in need of clarity to redefine my life. I invited someone in as a filler for what I was learning to live without. They sought long term love while I was seeking comfortable connection and I deeply regret the pain I caused."
Still happily single, my friend now lives in a space of truth and authenticity in relationship to self and the individual currently alongside them on their redefined joy filled journey.
"Why do you so earnestly seek the truth in distant places? Look for delusion and truth in the bottom of your own heart." ~ Ryokan
Can you define what being alone vs. being lonely means in your life?
Have you been seeking love or comfortable connection in your relationships?
Do you have the courage to be honest with yourself and others about what you truly seek in relationships?
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